Old School Tuesday: Eartha Kitt

Back at it again-bentgirl.com revives OLD SCHOOL TUESDAYS. It's were we take it back...way back in the day and give you the real deal on what a true sex symbol is all about!! Old School Tuesdays is all about rekindling our connection to our past while keepin it sexy.

Born January 17, 1927 in a remote town of South Carolina, Earth Mae Kitt came into this world to bless us with her unmatched beauty and talent. Born of a German father and Cherokee mother, Eartha Kitt did it all, a cabaret performer, actress and singer. Eartha is best known for her sultry rendition of the Christmas classic, "Santa Baby". 

She was a huge supporter of gay rights and was once quoted,  "I support it [gay marriage] because we're asking for the same thing. If I have a partner and something happens to me, I want that partner to enjoy the benefits of what we have reaped together. It's a civil rights thing isn't it?

Eartha Kitt may best be known for her alluring role as Cat Woman in the TV series Batman. As luck would have it Ms. Kitt became famous for her diabolical role after Julie Newmar left the show.

She has written three autobiographies in her lifetime, received Tony's, Emmy's and a gold record during her luminated career. She spoke four languages and sang in seven of them all over Europe and Asia, demonstrating just a taste of her versatility.

Like the finest of wines, Eartha Kitt simply got better with age. She effortlessly balanced an airer of elegance and sex. The world was made a better place for having this Goddess who delighted us for so many years. She will be missed.

::BENT GIRL::

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MILF Week???

Oh yeah! I said it! MILF Week!

Naughty America, a premier adult industry company has declared this week MILF Week. You know those hot soccer moms  and those eloquent executives hiding their goodies under those tailored suits.  This week they will be featuring all new films for download until Sept. 10th. The week starts off with a well known in the industry Nina Hartley then gives way to Latina heat MONIQUE FUENTES.

Monique Fuentes

MILF's need love too, right? I gotta say...I'm feelin MILF Week!! Good look Naughty America.


Happy Fucking!
::Bent Girl::

Kink On Demand

Latin Mommas feat. Monique Fuentes Now Playing @ Kink On Demand

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Famous Rant: In Search of Ethnic Nude Photography

I am in love with the human form. The oppositions of curves and angles, softness and rigid places makes for an erotic stimulant that pleases the senses. The art of the human form is lost on the internet with airbrushed, siliconed barbie dolls. Picture after picture in the adult industry are women who subjugate themselves to butt shots, boob implants and a caking of makeup that would make Tammy Fay Baker cringe.  I am starved for the unusual anyhow and because of this I easily grow tired of the plastic carbon copies.

As an aficionado of erotica I find myself searching the net for beautiful images of the body in as many diverse ethnicities and genres as possible. As an African-American woman I find it even harder to find images that represent the entire spectrum of races on film.

What I do find mostly is black women showing their assets with enough oil on it to fry a chicken. These images lack creativity and in my mind are one dimensional. The art of showing our curves, muscles, peeks and dips, the wide range of hues and textures of hair are a beauty unlike any other.

I struggle to find a deeper side of myself reflected.

These images, without variation, continue the idea that black women are loose freaks and nothing more. While non-blacks have photos in galleries, magazines and adult films were they can easily be portrayed in every character pose and setting imaginable, we remain booty shaking oil rubbing hoochies. To me image is everything-even in pornography.

If anyone knows of any adult sites/adult films or photographers/models that reach 'outside the box' and would like to be featured on this site giving way to some conscious creativity, by all means, please send me a link. I'd love to see it and proudly display it on BentGirl.com.


This Has Been Another Famous Rant!
Get Right People

Bent Girl

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New Adventures: Co-Host of THE PAPI CHULO SHOW

I never stop! There always seems to be something dirty to get myself into waiting around each corner. This time, its as the co-host of a wonderfully sexy new show called THE PAPI CHULO SHOW.

Every Wednesday @ 10pm (est) my blogalicious buddy PAPI CHULO and I dish all the juiciness on celebrities, entertainment news, sex, relationships and adult industry news, not to mention soulful sounds from up and coming artist! And who would want to miss our delicious interviews with the HOTTEST names in the adult industry game???

Last Wednesday was our DEBUT EPISODE featuring the finely sculpted 11-incher Flash Brown. He called in to the show to tell us about some of his favorite starlets he has worked with and the controversy surrounding this new comer to the adult industry. This chocolate wonder didn't hold back a thing! He was flirty, fun and even gave advice to a caller looking to get into the porn industry.

We recapped on the new season of Dancing With the Stars, The Emmy's and contestant Cavier of For the Love of Ray J as she makes serious claims of getting an STD from a well known star in the adult industry. Mmm Mmm. Good dirty fun.

Tune in for our next show where we will meet up with the luscious Nyomi Banxxx. And no worries, if you missed our first episode, you can download it straight from iTunes to hear it all!!! (Click the iTunes logo on our page.)

Bent Girl
Deliciously Bent
(c) 2010

photo courtesy Rafael Foto

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Cougars, Suga Mamas & MILFs...OH MY!!!

Insomnia strikes again...and what's on tv? One of my favorite late 80's shows. You know the one filled with sexual innuendos, none of which are ever actually true, the one with every man's fantasy-where a young slightly goofy man "innocently" shares an apartment with two hot female roommates in sunny California. Ah you guessed it-Three's Company.

I flipped thru mid-episode and didn't quite remember the storyline but, Chrissy was being grilled by Lana as if she was sleeping with Jack. And we all remember how the character Lana (Ann Wedgeworth) had the hots for Jack. She was the sexually vivacious yet older woman that constantly hunted Jack for sex. Nearly every episode the ample bosom cougar went after her prey with her feminine wiles. Lana knew exactly what she wanted and it was Jack! But for some reason he ran from her advances every time.

Thirty years ago it was apparent that the writers of these situation comedies didn't think it was socially acceptable to promote a strong, sexually aware mature woman in a positive light. She wasn't allowed to actually hook up with a younger man but was only good enough to chase him around. Instead of being respected she became the butt of the jokes for the show. Her age was blatantly demeaned. She was a vivacious self aware woman with needs like any other human.

Rewind to 2010 then go to any search engine and see what comes up when you type in those four dirty little letters-M.I.L.F. The market for MILF's or a Mom I'd Like to Fuck in the porn industry is incredibly extensive to say the least. Take a look at a few Hollywood couples like Demi and Ashton Nicolas Cage and his young bride or even on a stroll in the mall, you'll see a sexy older woman and a younger virile boy-toy on her short leash. When you see one ladies, just smile and nod.

Cougars have become a whole new category of feminine energy not to be diminished though their presence has always been around. Now there are reality shows, social clubs and websites, around the world that pay homage to the power of these dominant creatures. I say--it's about damn time! Grrrrrr!!

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Teach Me How To Love

Recently I was listening to Musiq Soulchild's Teach Me How To Love. I'm so diggin this song circa 2007. It hits home because I think it is a reflection of what most men are taught about love and their manhood in relation to the women they romantically love. He comes from such a point of humility about love that it just makes me moist. Well that's my personal fantasy-a man who's ego doesn't overshadow his sensibility. For any man to openly say to his woman 'we got issues, and its apparent that I don't know how to love you, I don't know what I'm doing, so teach me. I'll listen and I'll learn from you," is a step towards growth. The essence of humility and a willingness to genuinely make personal changes in your character to meld with another human IS the ultimate aphrodisiac.

The lyrics are astounding.

II know from personal experience that this is how men feel. Nature dictates that men are the protectors and the providers. Any man who is worth anything will take this role very seriously. Men are taught not to express themselves especially to their lady. They feel that they are being less of a man to show any signs of emotion. And for a man emotion equals weakness. This is the lesson carried through life.

It is also a reminder for the female community that it is indeed our responsiblity as Goddess of the earth to bring about the healing of love that is so needed. Women are the first teachers. It is our responsiblity to not only teach the male species how to love but if we want to be happy in our romantic relations it becomes very necessary to take our lovers by the hand, guiding them, specifically showing them what they need to do to love us correctly. We have to guide them, shape them and make clear our wants and needs. The saying still holds true, if the woman is not happy, the house is not happy.

Some women might interrerpt this to mean that we need to whip our men into shape. I say yes. Take it how you need to but it is a necessary thing for any relationship to survive.

The thought process in this song is that apparently Musiq knows he has not been shaped and made for his woman. These are the thoughts that turn men to Gods in my eyes. This is what makes a God. A man who is able to come out of what society has taught him and puts his trust in the right woman to shape himself for her needs. Its this power that makes women Goddesses, the ability to take a raw piece of clay and form it into what we see fit, making a woman in turn a Creator.

Some of you may think I'm going off the deep end. There are indeed some women who find love and try to change their partner, forcefully. It is our subtle nature that is best used in this instance. But what I'm saying is not about changing a man to be something he's not but more about bringing out that balance of aggression and submissiveness.

Check the lyrics:

verse 1]
I was told the true definition of a man, was to neva cry,
work till you die (yea), got to provide (yea),
always be the rock for my fam,
protect them by all means and give you the things that you need. baby.
Our relationship is sufferin trynna give you what I neva had
you say I don't know how to love you babe, well I say show me the way,
I keep my feelings deep inside I, shadow them with my pride I,
I'm tryin desperately baby just work with me.

(chorus)
Teach me how to love, show me the way to surrender my heart,
girl I'm so lost, teach me how to love, how I can get my emotions involved,
teach me. show me how to love
show me the way to surrender my heart,
girl I'm so lost, teach me how to love, how I can get my emotions involved,
teach me (how to love)

[verse 2]
I was always taught to be strong, neva let 'em think you care at all,
let no one get close to me, before you and me.
I done shared things wit you girl bout my past,
(that I'd neva tell), to anyone else (no), just keep it to myself (yea).
Girl I know I lack affection and expressing my feelings, it took me a minute to come and admit this
but see I'm really trynna change now,
wanna love you betta, show me how, I’m tryin desperately baby please work with me.

(chorus)
Teach me how to love, show me the way to surrender my heart,
girl I'm so lost, teach me how to love, how I can get my emotions involved,
teach me. show me how to love
show me the way to surrender my heart,
girl I'm so lost, teach me how to love, how I can get my emotions involved,
teach me, teach me (how to love)

[verse 3]
Ain't nobody eva took the time to try to teach me what love was but you.
And I ain't neva trust no one enough to let 'em tell me what (to do),
teach me how to really show it and, show me how to love you baby,
(teach me please just show me yea) cause I’m willing, to let go of my fears,
girl I’m serious, about all that I say
girl I wanna love you (wanna love you), with all of my heart (all of my heart),
baby show me where to start

(chorus)
Teach me how to love, show me the way to surrender my heart,
girl I'm so lost, teach me how to love, how I can get my emotions involved,
teach me. show me how to love
show me the way to surrender my heart,
girl I'm so lost, teach me how to love, how I can get my emotions involved,
teach me how, how to love

Teach me, how to love you baby
Girl just teach me how to love you betta
You know I wanna love you betta, girl

(c) 2001 Tru

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Embracing Dualities

Embracing  Dualities

Like a Libra balancing the scales
I act Old then skip youthfully to my Lou
Humble and Boastful cause I know Nature made me so
Very Serious then playfully Silly
A day Dreamer and also a Focused Beast when my mind is clear and I’m aligned
I am a Screamer and with dignity Reserved
Wildly Sexual, next, Empty with desire
Ditsy and dynamically Perceptive, thought provoking even
Spiritual and Physical as I shape the clouds, then crash back down to earth
Submissive then the Aggressor-hunting for prey, demanding my way
Fire then Ice
Cozy like your favorite slippers but then again scratchy, uncomfortably honest like sandpaper
All talk and no action push a button and I jump to prove my worth
Refined, sophisticated prim and proper then I giggle freely-my mouth filled with filthy expletives
I’m embracing my dualities-these are my dualities
Passionate…then just like that…fuck it!
A Loner and a Social butterfly wrapped up in a package, complete with a pretty bow
Rich with Wisdom poor with Money
A Vegetarian who still loves hot wings
I live for the Quirky some days I’m a plain Jane
These are my dualities-I am not afraid of my dualities
Classical Funk
Rock and Jazz
The perfect ratio of Female to Male strong, supple soothing to touch
The Voyeur once given some liquid courage transforms to Exhibitionist
A Midget standing on the shoulders of Giants
Optimistically hopeful some days Stunted by my own self doubt
I’ve come to adore my dualities
I seem a paradox to those who don’t know themselves
I am simple Embracing MY Dualities

(c) Tru 6/2010

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Sex Cycles

Today, I came into a sex revelation about myself. In talking with a friend the other day about sex, it occurred to me, I had and have always had these cycles of sexual insatiability. I'm not sure if I'm the only one who experiences this but this is what I've come to recognize. I can go long long periods without sex, with or without a partner (having a partner by choice). As sensually creative as I like to be I am by no means addicted to sex.

Something triggers my sexual appetite, maybe the onset of my cycle (which for many women is the case as hormones start to fluctuate) a sexy movie, a look, a kiss...maybe I sat in a chair the wrong way that sent a tingle to some hot spot, igniting some sort of cell memory reminding me of the extreme bliss of an orgasm. Whatever the case I turn into a ravishing panther! Whoever is around-beware-'cause you will get caught up in my ravenous world wind! Like a hungry beast I feed till I'm satisfied.

Then-like my bottomless addiction never existed-I return back to normal. Normal isn't even the word. I find that I have driven myself from one extreme to the other. I am empty of all sexual desires. At this point I simply find sex boring. I am by no means repulsed by it, however, I have no interest in it and my mind looks for other pleasure in life-good conversation, social experiences, adventures. My other senses need attention now that my physical has had all it needs.

I've often wondered about this peculiar part of me. I thought it was strange. As I grow more wiser and in tune with myself I am excepting of my sexual cycles, besides I like turning into a wild beast now and then.

Happy Fucking!
Ever M. Famous

(c) 2010

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Sexual Repression

As I posted on my FB page, " In the wee hours of the night I have realized that repression of ANY kind just isn't healthy."

I'm STILL Bent Girl aka Ever M. Famous aka Star (my new Alter Ego). I'm still a HUGE freak who loves sex in damn near every form it comes in. I truely enjoy the shit out of sex-the smell, the feel, the creativity, the sounds the feel-oh I said feel two times lol. It's an undeniable part of me.

But see that was my issue for the last few months of my life. I started to think that I couldn't be spiritual and reach toward my higher self and be sexual too. So I convinced myself (along with the help of others) that this blog was no longer a reflection of me. Sure it's not all of who I am and what I have to offer this world. But its fun and I love the topic of sex and relating to people on a physical romantic level. Shit, the spiritual is connected to the physical so how could I possible seperate the two?

So all this being said-Bent Girl lives on! I can not and will not repress, ignore or push aside anything that makes me, well ME. That's what this blog is about really, me having a platform to hone my writing skills, while entertaining, informing and writing about one of life's most beautiful sensations-SEX.

So here we go ya'll-Chapter 2 of Bent Girl begins...

Enjoy the ride, I know I will! *dirty lil grin*

~Bent Girl aka Star

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So You Think You Can Be A SoloSexual?

Well they say if you want something done right, ya gotta do it yourself. Right? But does that apply to auto fellatio? Auto fellatio is the act of oral stimulation of one's own penis as a form of stimulation, "self sucking" for those that need clarification.

For some reason auto fellatio is usually thought of as a "man's" game. I have yet to see a woman who is capable of this amazing self pleasuring feat. Perhaps the contortionist in the circus. *tries to visualize*

Overly crowded yoga classes filled with men wanting to limber makes sense to me now.

Apparently this aerobic anomaly of nature is enjoyed by the five incher's on up to the third legged mandingo's. Internet novices suddenly turn into masturbation guru's assuring us that it's all in the stretching, confirming that unless weight is the issue, almost any man can accomplish sucking his own dick.

My question now that the facts have been established on technique is: does auto fellatio make you gay? I know if I was dating a man and in an intimate moment curls himself into a pretzel shouting 'look what I can do' my immediate thought is, you've got to be gay. How is it possible to enjoy sucking your own tool but snarl your lips at the idea of sucking off the next dude. Impossible.

Don't be fooled, there are women who love a limber man and his unusual activities. Over 140,000 results came to my surprise as I googled the subject. Websites like Solosuck.com bring this to the forefront. If you didn't know now you know! So be assured auto fellatio isn't just for loosers anymore.

Bent Girl

(c) 2009

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